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How Do We Use Hope and Optimism to Overcome Stress?
Hope and optimism can help us get through stressful moments and manage those pessimistic thoughts that creep in. One of the most useful ways we can develop attitudes that work well for us is by using the power of self-talk. Self-talk is the inner conversation we have with ourselves. People facing distressing events and trying times can use more supportive self-talk to guide their thinking away from pessimistic thinking to move in a more hopeful direction.
For example, you may find yourself saying things like:
- What's the use?
- Why bother?
- Nothing ever works out anyway.
- I always mess things up.
Practice challenging these and other pessimistic thoughts you might have over and over again. Keep reminders at home and at work to replace them with more hopeful, supportive thoughts. When we change our self-talk for the better, we're retraining our brains to handle these difficult decisions automatically.